Mood Music

Many people love to incorporate music into their lovemaking. Background music can add to the enjoyment for many, others find it distracting. Most people are music lovers though and like mood music to add to the experience. I’m in the find it distracting category.

I was inspired to write this after seeing a poll recently that had men’s and women’s opinions on this topic, and twice as many men found background music distracting as women did. Women overwhelmingly preferred to have music on in the background. I guess I’m with the boys on this one. I’d rather concentrate on my partner than be thinking of music in the background.

There have been some memorable music and sex scenes in movies, there was a funny scene from the movie “10″ about the Ravel’s Bolero and how it’s perfectly written to have sex to. It’s a very funny movie I recommend. We can all think of various movies, usually comedies, where some guy is trying to seduce a girl and lowers the lights and puts on the “mood music” in the hopes of quickly turning things naughty

I have one client that loves to masturbate to fast paced pop songs, Avril Lavigne in particular, he pumps and pumps, it sounds like more of a workout than a relaxing masturbatory session, but whatever floats your boat. Music can add a different mood to any situation, but for background music for sex, both people should be in agreement as to what to listen to so one isn’t distracted at the others’ expense. What adds to an experience for some, takes away for another.