Start by being yourself. It's easy to
overdo it, exaggerate and tell people something that you'd wish you were
rather than who you really are. But this doesn't work in the long run.
Fantasies are NOT how to meet someone special. And you aren't very special
by being dishonest. Take a moment right now and list your good and bad
features, something like this:
GOOD
Good personal hygiene
Had the same job for a long time I like kids I drive a newer car (less than 5 years old) I am told I am funny |
NOT SO GOOD
I smoke
I drink occasionally The last time I bought new clothes was 2 years ago I have few friends I don't know why people stop calling or emailing me |
Now that your list is done, it's time to let it all make
some sense and work on your strong points. Take your list and sleep on it
for a day or two. These are the things that
make you an individual and we want to work on the good things!
Start writing your personal ad now and include the
things that make up your good points. Talk about yourself as someone would
introduce you to someone new. The third person approach allows for you to
not come over as too vain or insecure. Just be honest and describe yourself
as you have been described.
Once you have been surfing and browsing the Private Affairs personals
services, find a couple of members that interest you. Read what the
other men (if you are a man) or women (if you are a woman) are
putting in their
own ads and see if what they are saying makes sense to you and
appeals to
your sense of honesty. Do the ads you are reading seem truthful?
Like
someone you'd like to meet? When you read the ad, does it make you
want to
become that person's friend? This is the reaction that you are
looking
for.
Pay attention to the headlines that are leading you
into delving farther into the ads. What works for you? Which ones grab your
attention? How can you make it work for you? Take your time and aim high!
Don't just copy a nice headline, change it to reflect the person you are and
make it work for you!
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