In order to see a reputable provider, you must do everything in your power to make her feel comfortable. One of the first steps to this is your screening. Reputable providers have a number of ways to screen, such as..
1. Personal Information: She will request details about your life & do what she can to discretely verify your information. This may include your work number, etc.
pros: your personal information is kept by one provider, verses a database
cons: the provider will have your personal information
2. 3rd Party: She may be associated with a website/ company she trusts that will do her screening for her, such as Preferred411 or DateCheck.
pros: done quickly through the site, provider does not have your personal information, easy to see multiple providers on the same 3rd party site.
cons: you will have an online profile that you MAY have to pay for
3. Provider Referrals: She will request the contact information of other reputable providers you have seen & contact those ladies to verify that they would see you again.
pros: the provider does not have your personal information.
cons: the original providers may become jealous that you are seeing another provider & give them bad information, as well as "gossip" about you.
Every provider has her own way of doing things. She is not going to change those ways for you, no matter how badly you try to convince her otherwise. Decide what kind of screening you are willing to do, then find a provider who will meet that decision.
DO NOT SEE A PROVIDER, IF SHE DOES NOT SCREEN. If she has such disregard for her own safety, how does she feel about yours?
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