So you’re thinking about getting into sex work and working as a
Pro-Domme? You’ve always been interested or rather fascinated in the
mysterious and alluring fetish world and have spent more then a few
evenings in your local fetish and goth clubs checking everything out and
you know you’d just be great at Dominating men for fat stacks of easy
money. It’s not as easy as you think and many hopefuls have gotten
nowhere fast by not thinking it through. Here are somethings to remember
if you think being a Dominatrix is in your future.
1. Have skill
Being a Domme is more then just looking good in latex, you need to
have actual skill. Take a mental inventory of your abilities and be
honest. It’s best not to offer strict shabari bondage or suspension if
you don’t know what the fuck you are doing. If you are great at trash
talking then maybe mental domination is your thing, if you have amazing
flexible feet then think about foot fetish, if you have experience in
OTK spanking then do that. Remember the goal might be to cause pain or
discomfort but you never want to cause harm. If you don’t feel you have
fetish skills in your arsenal to hang out a shingle then its time to
invest in some classes, they exist!
2. Look good
One of the big turn on for clients is the look of the Dominatrix he’s
seeing. It doesn’t mean you have to have a perfect body, or a 50K
wardrobe but you should be pulled together ad have a few things to wear
in sessions that make you look amazing and intimidating. Maybe your
speciality is OTK spanking then you might want to cultivate a 1950′s
headmistress look, think about what your offering and think about how
that should translate into your Dominatrix persona.
3. Getting the client off
Lets just admit it, clients go see a Domme because it turns them on.
What ever their predilection is it’s because they get a sexual charge
out of it and they want to get off to whatever that is. Now how this
happens is totally up to you and you should know your boundaries going
into it. Most clients jerk themselves off towards the end of the session
at the direction of the Domme. Some Dommes offer strap on services
(fucking your client in the ass with a dildo, yeah that is
prostitution) I know you heard that being a Dominatrix meant no sex and
you’ve read all the hundreds of disclaimers on many a Dommes website
saying they are not prostitutes. Though I do know of a Domme or two who
will actually fuck their clients most don’t offer intercourse, many
never even take their shinny latex clothes off. Almost all allow their
clients to get off in one way or another because seeing a dominatrix is
a sexual experience. It’s up to you to chose how far your willing to
go. Remember to protect yourself if you decide to offer more sexually
based services. Person to person contact will almost always put you in
the same realm as escorts by law enforcement and you need to take
precautions
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