You Know You Want To

A taboo for many guys is anal, as in receiving. Most guys want to give it, but not as many want to get it in return. I’m not talking about guys fucking them, I mean as in a woman using a strap on on them.

A guy just tonight called and said he didn’t have a toy, but he wanted instructions on what to do with his ass. I told him a cucumber might suit his purposes. A cheaper answer than a toy to see if anal was for him. I felt ridiculous telling this man to use a vegetable on himself, but, amazingly, he made himself cum with it without even touching his cock.

He emailed a few times asking for instructions, he went out and got the requested vegetable, then called up, veggie and lube in hand and then with my guidance slowly inserted the cucumber up his ass. I had a guy call once that used a carrot, but somehow a cucumber seemed more appropriate in this case, so perhaps now he will either get an actual dildo or we can graduate up in size to progressively larger cucumbers.

Many men can cum very hard from anal toys without even touching their cock. The prostate can give them explosive orgasms that can be induced by toys, or with fingers. So if your guy is a bit shy, don’t show up sporting a strap on, suggest fingers first and then if that goes well, suggest a small toy for the next step. Your guy may never graduate to a strap on, but can find pleasure with his “man pussy”!

Up Yours!

One taboo activity that gay and straight people both engage in is fisting. It was considered illegal to even show in porn. The stretching of the vagina and rectum is considered where the pleasure comes from, not so much the moving in and out motions.

It can be a risky activity unless one is gentle and uses lots of lubrication, since the tissues in the areas involved are easily damaged, and special care must be taken. Some people fist themselves during masturbation, thought they have to be fairly thin and flexible to do so. It’s usually done by another person.

There are plenty of sex toys for fisting enthusiasts, that are molded off of real arms. They are big! I couldn’t believe some of the things I saw online, so there is a market for these things, and this is an interest shared by many. Some even use bottles for their fisting fun. You could get plenty stretched out from using a bottle on yourself for sure.

I have found men from England seem to be into this more than North Americans from calls that I have personally taken where they wanted to discuss this topic.

It’s not for everyone, but there are ones that derive enjoyment from fisting. There are many enthusiast sites online for just about every fetish out there, including this one. So get your lube out, not water based lube since it’s quickly absorbed by the body, and maybe some latex gloves and if you dare, explore the fetish of fisting to see if you like how it feels.

Backdoor Bustle

To many people and in many cultures anal sex is taboo. So much so, in many countries, 36% of the world, it is still illegal.  Now how many are actually prosecuted, that remains unknown, as how many times is a law officer in the place where people are conducting such acts, not very often.

In strict countries, it is even punishable by death. The world is truly crazy to try and legislate what consenting adults do in their own bedrooms.

In the words of former Canadian Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau, “there’s no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation”. Too bad all countries don’t agree.

Men, many of them, adore anal sex, since even the loosest ass is tighter than the tightest pussy, right? It feels good for them. Some women feel the same, though it’s much more desired among men.

I talk to men around the clock about their sexual desires, and anal sex is one of the top topics mentioned as a desired thing to do. Many of their wives and girlfriends do not want this though, so most go without it, but it is very much craved, believe me.

Anal sex has an element of the forbidden precisely because it has been considered an unnatural act from biblical times.

Who knows how many have been imprisoned or even put to death for a merely sexual act when they have been charged and prosecuted for anal sex. Luckily most civilized Western countries have repealed many of the laws regarding this act so people can do as they wish with their sexual partners without worry of being charged with a crime.