Scary Boy

Early this morning I got a text from a stranger.  This is the conversation:

7:51am:  Hey, Emily
8:21am:  Hi
8:24am:  What u doing?
8:25am:  Chatting with you
8:25am:  Wanna see me?  At your place
8:31am:  Have you been screened?
8:35am:  No go for it
8:36am:  Go to my website to get started
8:35am:  U in Catonsville?
8:37am:  I am not in Catonsville
8:39am:  Where?
8:39am:  Baltimore
8:41am:  Where in bmore?
8:42am:  Once you have been screened, you can have more details
8:42am:  street
8:44am:  Email me at EmilyRoseSmiles@gmail.com to get started with your screening.
8:45am:  Ok {other provider name}.  I'll be at {street address} today.
8:47am:  Sorry.  I am not interested in meeting you since you just texted me the address of another provider.
8:47am:  U not her?
8:48am:  No.
(I stopped communicating with him, at this point)
8:48am:  I'm sorry boo
8:48am:  Is that {another provider name}'s place?  I remember going there once
9:05am:  Hello
9:06am:  Let's talk
9:06am:  I'll just meet you there in the back door area in hour
9:12am:  See you {provider name}.
9:12am:  I am on my way
9:12am:  {picture of provider in bra & panties on a bed}
10:06am:  You going to jail
10:31am:  Taking you out {provider name}
10:31am:  I will get my revenge
10:32am:  I will watch you always
10:32am:  Shits just got real
10:32am:  bye

Obviously, he had me confused with someone else.  Obviously, he is unbalanced.  This is why it's so important to for a provider to screen & cross reference any information given. So, stop your bitchin', when the screening process is not going just the way you had hoped.

Industry Guide: Screening

In order to see a reputable provider, you must do everything in your power to make her feel comfortable.  One of the first steps to this is your screening.  Reputable providers have a number of ways to screen, such as..

1.  Personal Information:  She will request details about your life & do what she can to discretely verify your information.  This may include your work number, etc.

pros:  your personal information is kept by one provider, verses a database

cons:  the provider will have your personal information

2.  3rd Party:  She may be associated with a website/ company she trusts that will do her screening for her, such as Preferred411 or DateCheck.

pros:   done quickly through the site, provider does not have your personal information, easy to see multiple providers on the same 3rd party site.

cons:  you will have an online profile that you MAY have to pay for

3.  Provider Referrals:  She will request the contact information of other reputable providers you have seen & contact those ladies to verify that they would see you again.

pros:  the provider does not have your personal information.

cons:  the original providers may become jealous that you are seeing another provider & give them bad information, as well as "gossip" about you.

Every provider has her own way of doing things.  She is not going to change those ways for you, no matter how badly you try to convince her otherwise.  Decide what kind of screening you are willing to do, then find a provider who will meet that decision.

DO NOT SEE A PROVIDER, IF SHE DOES NOT SCREEN.  If she has such disregard for her own safety, how does she feel about yours?