If you want to know how to give a woman screaming orgasms you need to
become a master of cunnilingus and learn how to perform oral sex
properly. Its well known that cunnilingus is one of the most useful
sexual variations for men and is certainly one of the most stimulating
experiences for women.
In case you don't know, cunnilingus is the
art of performing oral sex on a woman by using your mouth and tongue to
stimulate the clitoris which is the most erotically sensitive part of a
woman's body. The tongue and the mouth are more versatile than the penis
which is why its such an effective way of giving a woman a clitoral
orgasm.
Before you perform oral sex you should both make sure that
your are clean so you may want to take a shower together first to
ensure that you have the best possible experience. Its also important
for men to cut their nails and make sure they are smooth as you don't
want to hurt your partner and cause unnecessary injury.
A common
mistake that many men make is to lick the clitoris too soon before the
proper teasing has been done. Its important to take your time and slowly
work your way around the erogenous zones so that your partner becomes
sufficiently stimulated and ready for her clitoris to be touched.
Its
also important to remember that using the same pattern on the same area
can get boring so try to be creative and change your patterns
regularly. If you know a certain technique that drives your partner wild
with excitement its a good idea to bypass it and come back to it later
as this will drive her crazy.
When your partner is ready for
clitoral stimulation you first need to kiss the outer lips of her vagina
and then use the tip of your tongue to gently lick her clitoris which
is the little pink area of flesh where the folds of skin come together
at the top of the vagina. Once you have stimulated the clitoris with
your tongue you should be able to use it to slowly part her outer lips
and then insert it into her vagina.
At this point, you can
carefully hold her outer lips apart and run the tip of your tongue back
up to her clitoris and lick it softly and gently until she becomes more
aroused. The persistent rhythmic licking of your tongue tip on her
clitoris is what will eventually bring her to orgasm.
To increase
the pleasure you give to your partner while you are licking her clitoris
you can insert one of your fingers into her vagina. It takes a woman a
lot longer to orgasm than a man so stamina is important and you may need
to keep going for fifteen minutes or more. Once she becomes excited its
important to keep a steady and consistent movement as this will assist
her in reaching higher levels of pleasure.
Cunnilingus can be used
as a way of arousing your partner before sex or as a substitute for sex
and its a great way of making sure your partner is fully satisfied. If
you perform cunnilingus on your partner before sex and give her an
orgasm it will also reduce some of the anxiety that men feel about how
well they will perform which is useful if you suffer from erectile
dysfunction and impotence due to stress and nervousness.
